Sunday, April 18, 2010

Self Esteem - Are you being kind to yourself?

Why Is Self-Esteem Important?

Self-esteem is all about how much people value themselves, the pride they feel in themselves, and how worthwhile they feel. Self-esteem is important because feeling good about yourself can affect how you act. A person who has high self-esteem will make friends easily, is more in control of his or her behavior, and will enjoy life more by making smarter decisions.

A positive, optimistic attitude can help develop a strong self-esteem — for example, saying, "Hey, I'm human" instead of "Wow, I'm such a loser" when you've made a mistake, or not blaming others when things don't go as expected all help build self confidence.

Knowing what makes you happy and how to meet your goals can help you feel capable, strong, and in control of your life. A positive attitude and a healthy lifestyle (such as exercising and eating right) and surrounding yourself with friends who support you, are a great start for building healthy self-esteem.